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Wednesday, June 12, 2013

That Fork In The Road...

Okay guys! I'm writing to you today with such excitement that I can barely contain myself. I hope you guys will share my excitement. So here we go. I'm going to tell you a story, but if you stick with me until I get to the end, you will learn some truly exciting news. I PROMISE.

I can still remember the first time I danced on a stage. I was 4. I remember wearing a pink tutu and pink tights and pink leotard and pink ballet shoes. Totally girly. So I danced for a few years after that. Then I discovered Hot Wheels and Barbies and I stopped going to dance classes. 

Can you handle the cuteness? ;)
So when I was about 9 years old, I picked back up with the dance classes. I did a combination class for three years that was Jazz, Ballet, and Tap. I fell in love with ballet. It was honestly about the only time I was graceful and had good balance. Seriously. I'm a clutzo. Still. So because I loved ballet, I continued to take that until I graduated high school and I took Pointe which is when the pretty girls dance up on their toes. I did the Pointe for 5 years along with the ballet. I also took Hip-Hop. That was a lot of fun. Okay so I know that I just hit you with a lot of information. But here is a picture from my senior year. 


So I graduated high school and went off to college. I became an Appalachian State University Mountaineer. I was an undecided major. I loved dance but I knew I would never make it as a performer. So I figured I would find something I loved just as much. So my Sophomore year in college I declared a Psychology major. I had no clue what I was going to do with it but I knew that I wanted to help people.

Fast forward to this past Spring. I was a Junior and by this point I had taken 5 or 6 dance classes up here. I was in Modern 1 at the time and my teacher told me that she thought I would make a great dance teacher. I was like, uh scuse me. Say what?! I thought about it for a little while then just kind of pushed it out of mind thinking it was too late to do anything about it now. 

I met with my psychology advisor a few weeks later and he made me realize I didn't have a real passion or drive for psychology. I liked it and it interested me, but it didn't excite me or make me want to work hard in my classes. But I figured I would just finish the degree and worry about the rest later. 

One day, I was talking to my lovely beau and he told me that he just couldn't see me listening to people's problems all day. He said he could definitely see me doing something dance related. But mind you he hasn't seen me dance. So I began to mull this over more and more. Finally a couple weeks ago I talked to my sister about it. She told me to go for it. She said that mom and dad would understand and that I need to do what is best for me.

So 2 weeks ago, I went to the Dean's office in the College of Fine and Applied Arts and got a change of major form. I then emailed the Chairperson of the Dance department and she told me to email an advisor. So I did. I met with her last week. We discussed the process and what classes I would need and when I would graduate. I told her I would talk to my parents then let her know what was going to happen. 

I talked to my parents on Sunday and they told me to go ahead and that they were excited. Mostly excited that I finally figured out what I wanted to do. ;) 




So friends, today I turned in my change of major form. I changed my schedule for the second summer session and the fall. Guys. I'm a Dance Studies major and I am going to teach people to love dance as much as I do. I am so excited to start this journey. I will graduate a semester late but who cares. I have direction and I have plans. I made a choice at the fork and I know I chose correctly.



The two above pictures are from this past Spring.

With love, Carly ♥

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

The Truth About Job Hunting

Okay, so for the past month or so, my roomie and I have been vigorously searching for jobs. Jobs of any kind. I even told her the other day that I would shovel poop on a farm if it paid well enough. No joke. I would do it. 

I need a job, real bad. Like so bad. I have little experience which probably doesn't help my situation but you have to start somewhere right. The majority of my experience is in childcare. I worked at a daycare for 2 years and have babysat for a while now. I love kids. Unfortunately no one around here seems to need or want childcare. Like do you just leave them home alone or what? It sucks. Major butt. Huge butt. Lots of Butt. 


So because of this lack of childcare opportunities, I have succumbed to applying for jobs I don't even know if I'll be good at. Jobs like being a waitress, being a cashier, or working in retail. I am clumsy, moody, and wear my emotions on my face. But I am so desperate. I just need a job.


I hate job hunting. Its like a college student's worst nightmare. IT SUCKS! I have filled out about probably 15 applications, send numerous emails, and searched on the internet for many hours for a job. Places that were hiring obviously didn't like my childcare skills, places that said they would call never called, and I'm pissed. I have been working so hard but my efforts aren't helping at all. 

So today, I did something drastic. I made a childcare provider profile on Care.com. No seriously. I did. I am that desperate. I need a job y'all. I want a job. I like to be lazy but my laziness is wearing thin. I am stuck in this apartment with no money. Unacceptable. Here are 3 things that I believe to true about how employers feel about college students.

#1: We are lazy. They think we don't ever want to do anything and that Mom and Dad still pay for everything. Well you turds, the truth is we do want to do things and our parentals DON'T pay for everything anymore. So stop being turd-like and friggin' hire us. 

#2: We are slow learners with no experience. I'm serious. I think employers believe that if we don't have any experience in the field we are trying to apply for, that we won't be able to pick up what needs to be done. They think they will have to spend more time correcting our mistakes than running their business. Well excuse me, but I am smart and I am a fast learner. So stop being turds and putting "experience required" on your job ads. No body likes the mean girl.

And finally, #3: We don't want to work weekends because we want to party. This. Is just stupid and false. I don't drink. I can't even legally drink, mind you. And I hate parties. I hate feeling like I have to get dressed up just to go sit on my butt at someone else's house instead of my own. Plus I'm in a committed relationship and parties are for picking up people. I have my perfect man. I don't need drunkards. 

So the truth about job hunting is that it sucks for college kids. It's a hard knock life for a college kid. Wish me luck.

*Make sure to check back tomorrow! I will have some truly exciting news!*

With love, Carly ♥

Monday, June 10, 2013

I hate Mondays.

I hate Mondays. I think they are the worst thing ever. I spend every Sunday night wishing that Monday won't come, but it unfortunately always does. However, there is something that makes my Mondays better. Actually it makes any day great. I love this video. It's hilarious to me and I hope you find it funny as well. 
Enjoy! Happy Monday!!!

This guy is hilarious so you should definitely watch more of his videos!

So just for your enjoyment, here are two more recent videos!




With love, Carly ♥